Analyze yourself and your life

Be honest with yourself about your abilities and your current situations.
Use what you discover to set realistic goals.

Ask yourself, “Knowing what I now know, is there anything that I am doing today that I wouldn’t start again if I had to do it over?”
If you are doing things now that were the outcome of a bad decision in the past, then you need to drop those things from your life. They only represent an obstacle in your path to success.

Do a financial analysis of your life
Determine your realistic and true net worth and your hourly rate to be able to get a clear picture of your current circumstances and your desired goals.