Be responsible for your actions.

When you begin to approach every situation as someone who is taking action, you will start to have more control over your life.

Analyze the nearest situation using this approach:

1. After every unpleasant encounter or event ask yourself, “What can I do to reduce the chances of this happening again? Is there anything I can do to ensure that it doesn't happen again?”
   Most of what happens to you is the result of your actions (or inactions). You are in charge of your life.