The High 5 Habit
Self-compassion
Love yourself for who you are
from The High 5 Habit: Take Control of Your Life with One Simple Habit by Mel Robbins
How to Apply This
- Recognize your value.
Take a moment to acknowledge and appreciate your unique qualities, accomplishments, and sense of humor. Remember that you are valuable and deserving of love just as you are. - Be gentle with yourself.
Treat yourself with the same kindness and compassion that you would offer a loved one. Use positive self-talk and avoid negative self-judgments. - Focus on the good.
Write down a list of things that you appreciate about yourself and read it every day. Make it a habit to celebrate all these good things about you. - Reward yourself.
Give yourself compliments and recognize your successes, no matter how small they are. - Challenge negative thoughts.
When negative thoughts arise, take a moment to question them. Consider if they are based on facts or just self-doubt. Replace negative self-talk with positive affirmations. - Refrain from self-doubts and criticisms.
Instead of putting yourself down, focus on the parts of yourself that you like. Practice self-acceptance and forgiveness. Recognize that imperfections are a natural part of being human. - Love yourself unconditionally.
Don't put off giving yourself love until you believe you "deserve" it. Love yourself unconditionally, just as you would love a close friend or family member. Remember that self-love is an ongoing process, and it takes time and practice to cultivate.
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