Create a deep emotional connection

Understand each other.
Share your deepest fears and needs with your partner - they are reasons for arguments without resolution. For example, fear of being alone, fear of losing control, and fear of abandonment. Are these fears causing you to behave in a way that initiates arguments in your relationship?

Open to emotional closeness.
Directly say the attachment needs that only your partner can satisfy. For example, "I want you to love me the way I am, no matter what,"; "I want you to hug me more,"; "I need you to tell me you love me often,"; "I need to feel respected, safe, needed," etc.