What Every Body is Saying

Decipher nonverbal cues

Instructions

Harness the power of nonverbal communication to truly understand others. Realize that nonverbal cues can provide invaluable insights into people's true emotions and intentions. By actively observing and interpreting these cues, you can gain a deeper understanding of others and protect yourself from potential dangers.
Sharpen your observational skills.
Train yourself to pay close attention to how people express themselves without using words. Take note of their facial expressions, body language, physical movements, posture, clothing choices, and even the nuances in their voice, such as tone, timbre, and volume.
Consider the context of nonverbal behavior. Remember that nonverbal cues can be influenced by the surrounding environment. Take into account the specific situation or setting in which the nonverbal behavior occurs. This context can provide crucial clues to help you interpret the meaning behind the cues accurately.
Compare and contrast verbal and nonverbal communication.
Take a moment to analyze the alignment between what someone says and how they express themselves nonverbally. If you notice inconsistencies, chances are the nonverbal cues are a more honest reflection of their thoughts and feelings.
Recognize universal nonverbal behaviors. Familiarize yourself with nonverbal behaviors that are universally recognized and shared among most people. For example, lip compression is a common nonverbal tell that transcends cultural boundaries. Understanding these universal cues will enhance your ability to decipher nonverbal messages effectively.