Be honest with yourself and others

Instructions

Set clear limits.
Have an opinion on what you like and don't like, and what you will and won't accept. Spend time exploring your inner self first before honestly expressing it to others.
Be open and honest about your feelings.
Speak your mind and express your emotions without any hidden agenda. Even if you are trying to make an impression, your true intentions will always be evident.
Examine your motivations.
Think about why you are so invested in women. Have an honest conversation with yourself and try to resolve it.
Find better ways to get male companionship.
Join a sports team, take your co-workers out for drinks, or buy tickets to the local basketball team. There are much healthier ways to get male companionship than trying to impress other guys by getting girls.