Get the right support to help you shift your Nice Guy paradigm

Identify trusted people or groups that can offer support
Write down 3 possible people or groups that can offer you the support you need to recover from the Nice Guy Syndrome. You can get support from a therapist, a religious leader, a close friend, a therapy group, or a 12-step group. Use the telephone directory or internet if you have to.

Reach out to these individuals or groups for help
Call these individuals or support groups and set up a meeting. Make sure you start this recovery process with men rather than women so that you avoid the trap of seeking female approval.