Increase your awareness of your tendencies
Instructions
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Write a list of things that you consider to be most precious.
This includes the things you like, long for, or love, like a particular food, your phone, alcohol, a loved one, or watching TV. -
Choose one and start transforming it by waiting before you indulge.
Wait consciously for a few moments before you engage in that activity or interaction. -
Notice the intensity of the pangs you go through when you stay away or delay.
This tells you about the nature and depth of your vasana. -
Gradually increase the amount of time before you indulge in your tendency.
The two minutes of waiting for a meal could be extended for two hours or an entire day. -
Acknowledge the beginning of a tremendous inner shift.
Compulsiveness is behavioral, and the moment you wait before you engage in a compulsion, you align yourself with the conscious nature of existence. Over time, this helps weaken the compulsive nature of your behavior.