Learn the lessons life teaches you.

Many people look at the hardships that life puts them through and get angry, or they give up. Neither of these options will help you achieve what you want. However, when you learn the lesson that life is trying to teach you, and begin to change yourself to solve the problem you face, you will grow into a wise, healthy, and happy person.

Instructions

When life pushes you around, learn the lesson and move on.
Life pushes everyone around and forces them to face pain and struggles. Instead of giving up, fighting back, or blaming others, reflect upon what got you to your situation, and learn the lesson life is trying to teach you.
Recognize that you are the problem.
When you think others are the problem, you will have to change them to solve it—a nearly impossible feat! However, when you think you are the problem, you will only have to change yourself. And it is much easier to change yourself than everyone else.

Insights

Face your reality and deal with the problems you have head on. This helps you because you don't spend your days wishing you were someone else who didn't have the problems you have now. Other people also have their own problems. Deal with your problems and face reality.

Llewellyn Devereaux