Limit phone interruptions during conversations
from You're Not Listening: What You're Missing and Why It Matters by Kate Murphy
How to Apply This
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Sit with a group of friends or family who are having a conversation
Try to observe silently instead of joining in. -
Make a mental note of when people look at their phone instead of listening
Observe those who are supposed to be listening, but are distracted by their phone. -
Pay attention to how other people respond when someone checks their phone
Do they look frustrated, hurt? Do they increase the volume or speed of their speech? -
Pay attention to how other people respond when someone shows them something on their phone
Are people interested in what is on another person’s phone? -
Resolve to leave your phone out of future conversations
People will be thrilled that you are listening to them!
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