13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do

Let go of your people-pleasing attitude

Instructions

** Recognize your people-pleasing tendency.**
The first step is to acknowledge that you have a tendency to please everyone around you. Identify the signs of people-pleasing in your behavior, and be honest with yourself about how it is affecting your life.
** Set boundaries.**
Have a list of the limits and needs you want others to respect. Then, clearly communicate it with people.
** Take time to decide whether to say yes or no.**
When someone asks you to do something, take a moment to evaluate the request before committing. Ask yourself if it's something you want to do and whether it aligns with your priorities and values. Don't be afraid to decline if it doesn't feel right for you.
** Practice saying no without the need to justify.**
You don't always have to provide a lengthy reason for your refusal. Practice saying "no" without feeling the need to justify yourself. Keep it simple, direct, and polite.
** Focus on your priorities.**
Make a list of your priorities and decide which ones are most important to you. Ensure that you're allocating your time and energy accordingly. Devoting your time to your priorities is far better than spending it trying to please others.
** Clarify your values.**
Take some time to reflect on your values and identify your top five. Rank them in order from most to least important. Align your actions with your values, and you'll find it easier to say "no" when necessary.
** Let go of the need to be liked.**
Recognize that people-pleasing is an unsustainable behavior that ultimately does more harm than good. Learn to prioritize your own happiness and well-being over the need to be liked by everyone.