Translate your body language into words on phone calls
Instructions
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Think of yourself as the star of a personal radio drama every time you pick up the phone.
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Turn your smiles into sounds, nods into noise, and all your gestures into something your listener can hear to become engaging.
For example, use phrases like “Uh-huh” or “I hear you” for nodding, or “I see”, “Oh that’s great”, “No kidding”, “Tell me more!”, “What a surprise!”, “That was wise of you”, “Oh, wow, that’s funny!” for your gestures. -
Use your caller’s name far more often than you would in person to give him warm feelings.
It recreates the effects of the eye contact you might give in person. -
After you hear who is calling, let a huge smile of happiness flow and spill over into your voice to make them feel special by saying “Oh Wow, It’s You!”
For example, “Oh Joe, [smile] how nice to hear from you!” -
When you hear something in the background (someone calling out their name, baby crying, etc) stop speaking and in mid-sentence, ask whether they have to attend it.
Whether they do or not, they will know you’re a top communicator